Smokey Southgate of Bay City, formerly of Unionville, age 86, of Bay City, formerly of Unionville, our outgoing, fun-loving, and dedicated husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, and friend was born into eternal life on the evening of Friday, January 4, 2019, at New Hope Bay. Smokey was born in Gilford Township on September 1, 1932, the son of the late Alvah and Mary (VanHove) Southgate. A graduate of Akron High School, Smokey went on to serve in the Naval Reserves prior to being drafted into the U.S. Army.
While standing as best man in his cousin’s wedding, Smokey met the former Betty Socier who was the maid of honor for her sister, and so began their romance. Their first date was to a polka dance, and upwards of 90% of their dates ended up being to dances. They were united in marriage on September 22, 1956, recently celebrating their 62nd wedding anniversary. Smokey worked as a design engineer for Kuhlman Electric for four years and then went on to work for United Welders for 21 years. When they closed, he transferred to R.W.C. for another 21 years prior to retiring. Smokey did not attend any college, but was self-taught in the designing of special welding equipment. He was a parishioner of Our Lady Consolota – Holy Family Church and enjoyed polka dancing, softball in his younger years, coaching both boys’ and girls’ softball teams, and camping. Smokey was a member of the Knights of Columbus, along with the Moose and Elk lodges. Smokey and Betty sold their home a few years back and chose to be full time RVers, living six months in Florida and six months in Sebewaing County Park in their fifth wheel. He will forever be remembered for his love of his family, along with his kind and appreciative nature.
Smokey leaves to cherish his memory, his devoted wife Betty and their children: Dale Southgate, Dennis and wife, Karen Southgate, Dave Southgate, Dean and wife, Cindy Southgate, and Tammy Millerwise. He was the loving and supportive grandpa of Joey, Ben, and Ally Southgate; Caleb and Addison Southgate; Ryan and Matthew Millerwise, and Brandon Hallock. Smokey also leaves behind his sister, Shirley and husband, Jerry Fox; in-laws, Wave Vermeersch, Jim and Judy Spinney, S. Gary and Jan Socier, Bill and Pam Socier, along with many nieces, nephews, and friends. In addition to his parents, Smokey was welcomed home to heaven by his father- and mother-in-law, Edward and Elizabeth Socier. Smokey’s family will be present to receive visitors on Wednesday, January 9, 2019 from 4-8 p.m. with a 7 p.m. Vigil for Smokey officiated by Fr. Dale Orlik at Skorupski Family Funeral Home & Cremation Services, 955 N. Pine Rd., Hampton Twp. On Thursday, January 10, 2019, Smokey will be taken to Our Lady Consolota – Holy Family Church, 8370 Unionville Rd., Sebewaing, where visiting will continue from 10 a.m. until Smokey’s 11 a.m. Memorial Liturgy. Fr. Adam Maher will officiate with a luncheon to follow at the church. Memorial contributions may be directed to the wishes of the family. Expressions of sympathy may be shared with the family online at

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